There is this interaction

But the hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him. John 4:23

The Father is seeking. God is seeking such [men]. 

There is this interaction, this synergia, that is everywhere alluded to in Scripture. Some will aver that there only seems to be such an interaction; God is sovereign over all things, and therefore everything is from His side, not ours. “You have not chosen Me”, Jesus said, “but I have chosen you”. Still, there seems to be more to it than that.

In a way beyond our understanding, both ideas are true. That is to say, we decide, we seek, we knock, we worship. And yet God is intimately involved in our seeking, in our knocking. He truly seeks such to worship Him, yet we are unable to do it without His help.